Three questions every couple should sit with before saying "I do."
1. What does conflict look like for each of you?
Not whether you'll disagree — you will — but how you handle disagreement.
2. What are you each assuming, that you haven't said out loud?
Assumptions about money, family, faith practice, and roles.
3. Who do you become when things are hard?
Ask each other honestly what you tend to do under stress.